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This topic contains 19 replies, has 1 voice, and was last updated by kaye 3 years, 10 months ago. So this guy who I was talking to asked to meet up relatively early after just a few messagesand I said Okay. We are supposed to have a coffee date. Oh sweetie this whole thing is a no no no no. If you want to get to know him better than asking better questions when he contacts you so that can help.
Never agree to coffee for a date, especially at 9 p. Could you meet up earlier, say ish? In addition, I never agree to coffee, that is a business meeting…. Coffee for first date is just perfect. It is short, it gives you quick time to realize if you click with him in person or not without the awkward situation of having a meal with an stranger and also if you want to leave right away.
Back to the question, coffee at 9am sounds like he is thinking about other stuff later. Bad idea at 9pm for first time and coffee. I make that clear to them. I need to chat more or to clear some facts before giving my or plan a first date.
Talllady, I tried asking him more questions, but he just gave like one-word replies, and he never bothered asking questions to get to know me better. Karem, I agree. I think you jumped the gun a little by agreeing to a date after only a few messages. It usually takes me a few days of messages to get a good feeling about a guy. I think you are right to cancel the date.
I try to arrange firs dates at my convenience if possible. So, an evening date would be no later than 7. Personally, I never speak on the phone Up late wanting to meet up potential dates as I find it easier to meet a stranger in person than stumble over an awkward phone conversation.
He sounds like a dud, and yes, 9pm is too late for a start time. I would just send him a message saying something came up and you are not going to be able to make the date after all. However, if you feel something is not right but want to see his reaction…you can say:. Call me and we can discuss it further over the phone! Thanks talk to you soon! Texting is not the greatest form of communication and some people are bad at it….
There was a guy I spoke to on the phone once and we texted briefly over 2 weeks no over texting but we did text short messages on a constant basis…we were scheduled to meet one day and he canceled. I gave him the benefit of the doubt and rescheduled. Never heard from him again…. Eh, I met my boyfriend back in Feb. After a few s he asked to meet for a drink on a Tuesday night. I had a meeting until 8 so he suggested I think not.
In my experience men, especially the ones you meet on line, fall into two — those looking to meet someone for a real relationship and those looking for fun. If someone wants to meet me, we can share a meal. If I am interested in him, I will let him pay providing he offers…different subject there. Just my opinion :.
So, you have to get the words out of his mouth with a spoon? Imagine if starting a relationship like that.
I also agree that 9pm is too late and for coffee no less. There are plenty of men online that have more conversation, pick better times to meet, and something a little more interesting besides coffee.
What if the person works at a job that goes from 2PM to 9PM? Like a piano teacher?
Are you going to penalize him for that? Seems Bernard is a little sensitive to this topic.
And I would love to know what piano teacher teaches until 9 at night!! So I have to get someone else to pick her up from school and take her to lessons. Name required :. Mail will not be published required :. The material on this site may not be reproduced, distributed, transmitted, cached or otherwise used, except as expressly permitted in writing by A New Mode, Inc. New to Online Dating — He wants to meet up at 9pm. Viewing 20 posts - 1 through 20 of 20 total. July 22, at am Reply. I feel like backing out of the date…what do you guys think?
Or you could say you have later plans but look forward to connecting. No, 9pm would be far, far too late for me. Good luck. Thanks for the advice ladies. Lol Boog well he started off nice and interested! So how do I politely tell him I dont want to see him? July 22, at pm Reply. August 18, at am Reply. August 18, at pm Reply. Search The Forums. See All Recently Updated Topics.
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If you don’t know or haven’t met each other yet but they’re asking to meet you late at night, it’s not for cocoa and a chat